In the book "Extremely Loud & Incredibly Close", by Jonathan Safran Foer is about a boy named Oskar Schell that goes on a journey to find what a key, which he found in his father's room, opens to. Actually this journey is about finding a way that he can try to overcome his father's death. In the end, I think that he really finds no way to try to stop grieving but just understood more about other people's lives in order to find more about himself and responsibilities.
In the book when he is with Mr. Black he goes to the Empire State Building to find one of the Blacks. They both think they found her but they start to argue who is going to ask her. In this point it seems as if childhood never leaves and it seems as if it is always hidden somewhere within us. One quote was when Oskar admits one of his secrets. It was, "I told him I felt like I couldn't do it, and he said it was OK to feel like I couldn't do it. I told him it was the thing that I was most afraid of. He understood why." With this quote I think that this shows resolution because he was able to realize one of his fears. Many people don't realize that they aren't capable of doing everything, and sometimes don't accept the truth. With this situation in the book, I think that Oskar feels insecure without the presence of his father. He feels that his father is kind of like a super power that helps him make believe that anything is possible. Oskar doesn't realize that he was able to find who the key belongs to without the help of his father but just with faith. In the world many people believe that a certain object or a certain person brings them good luck, but actually it is that it makes them feel secure and sure of themselves that anything is possible. But when that object or person leaves they feel insecure, but what they realize is that with or without the object they can accomplish anything.
Another part in the book is when Oskar is trying to find where the key belongs to, but has done nothing over the weekend. He is bored and says that he keeps the "Black" key separate, with a Band-aid because he thinks that it helps him be closer to his dad. He says, "Sometimes I like to touch it just to know that it was there, like the pepper spray I kept in my pocket. Or the opposite of that. " I think that with this quote he is trying to say that we like to keep our childhood within us and sometimes we don't want to grow up because life then becomes much harder. There are sometimes when we don't know how to face obstacles that have crossed our way and want to go back in the days when our troubles weren't that hard. Many people go through obstacles that probably don't seem hard, but actually really are when we haven't experienced it. We sometimes believe that the worst things can't happen to us, but when it does we need to find a way in order to overcome the problems. For example, Oskar would have never expected the death of his father, but he goes on this journey that he realizes that many people have also gone through the death of a loved one, but have found a way to keep on living their life. in life we never know what to expect we just have to find a way to overcome the obstacle once it happens.
In conclusion I think that one thing that we should hang on to is our childhood because it is what molded us into the type of person we are. It helped us define it and because for many, I guess, was when we are the happiest and nothing troubles us. As we grow up our troubles we confront are harder and harder and we always try to find a way to overcome them or find a way in which we are able to find tranquility. As we grow up also we learn to accept all of our flaws and along the way we are also able to define we are as a person much better. Any moment can make a difference in our lives, it just always depends on our perspective towards the moment.
